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10 Paradoxical Behaviors of Narcissists Uncovered

Read these to understand the true nature of narcissists.

Fahim chughtai
6 min readFeb 24, 2023
10 Paradoxical Behaviors of Narcissists Uncovered
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Narcissists are known for their contradictory behaviors, but have you ever explored their paradoxical tendencies?

Narcissists exhibit paradoxical behaviors that can be both fascinating and confusing to those around them. From being confident yet insecure, to being self-absorbed yet seeking validation, these paradoxes can leave others scratching their heads in disbelief.

In this article, we will explore 10 paradoxical behaviors of narcissists, and dive into the underlying psychology that fuels their contradictory tendencies. So, let’s unravel the complexities of narcissistic behavior and discover the surprising paradoxes that lie beneath the surface.

1. Confident yet insecure

Narcissists often project an image of themselves as confident and superior, but underneath this exterior, their self-worth is often fragile and unstable.

For example, a person with narcissistic traits may constantly seek approval from their partner, colleagues, or social media followers to feel valued and validated. They may become easily upset or angered by criticism or perceived slights, even if they don’t show it outwardly.

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Fahim chughtai
Fahim chughtai

Written by Fahim chughtai

I survived narcissistic abuse and transformed my pain into power. Now I help others escape toxic relationships and build the life they deserve.

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