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11 Ways to Protect Yourself from being Used by Narcissists

Save yourself from narcissistic abuse.

Fahim chughtai
3 min readFeb 26, 2022
11 Ways to Protect Yourself from being Used by Narcissists
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A narcissist’s use is a common experience for anyone in a relationship with a narcissist. The narcissist uses the victim’s energy and time to feed his ego. Being used by a narcissist can be devastating and have long-lasting consequences.

Here are 11 ways to protect yourself from being used by a narcissist.

1. Know your Narcissist

This may seem obvious, but it is essential to understand that all narcissists are not the same. A narcissist can be anyone from your best friend to your boss.

2. Trust Your Instincts

Narcissists are great at reading people and picking up on their weaknesses. They can often sense that you are not happy with your life, using this against you. You need to be aware of these warning signs and see when someone is playing a game.

You need to trust your instincts and not let them manipulate you.

3. Don’t Let Them Use You as a Victim

Don’t allow yourself to be used as a victim. Narcissists are highly manipulative, and you need to keep your guard up at all times. If they see that you are giving in to them…

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Fahim chughtai
Fahim chughtai

Written by Fahim chughtai

I survived narcissistic abuse and transformed my pain into power. Now I help others escape toxic relationships and build the life they deserve.

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