What is Narcissistic Abuse?

Signs, effects, narcissistic abuse cycle, and how to deal with it.

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Narcissistic abuse is a type of abuse that a narcissist inflicts. It is characterized by a pattern of behavior in which the narcissist uses tactics such as blame, criticism, and manipulation to control their partner.

What is Narcissistic Abuse?

Narcissistic abuse is emotional and physical abuse committed by someone who has a pathological need for admiration and control.

It can be difficult to identify because abusers often present a facade of being perfect and caring. However, there are several signs and symptoms of narcissistic abuse that should not be ignored.

What does narcissistic abuse feel like?

Narcissistic abuse can feel like a deep, intense pain that you can’t escape. It feels like you’re constantly under attack, and you can never do or say anything that makes the abuser happy.

You may feel like you’re worthless and that you have no control over your life. You may feel like you’re trapped in a cycle of abuse that you can’t escape.

Signs and Symptoms of Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional and physical abuse typically perpetrated by someone with high self-esteem and a lack of empathy for others. The signs and symptoms of narcissistic abuse can vary depending on the individual but may include:

1. A pattern of behavior that is designed to make the victim feel small and inferior.
2. Excessive attention is paid to the victim’s appearance or personal achievements, to the point where it becomes a source of shame or humiliation.
3. Manipulate the victim’s emotions, thoughts, and behavior to get what they want.
4. Constant criticism and put-downs, even when the victim does nothing wrong. There are threats of abandonment, isolation, or even violence if the victim tries to leave or speak up.
5. A lack of empathy or concern for the victim’s feelings.
6. A disregard for the victim’s privacy and personal space.