Your First Date Is a Narcissist What To Do

Fahim chughtai
5 min readSep 17, 2024

So, you’ve just met someone new. The world suddenly seems brighter. Butterflies are fluttering in your stomach, and every word they say makes you feel warm and cherished. It’s easy to get swept up in the rush of new romance — the late-night texts, the passionate glances, the intoxicating whirlwind of it all. You start thinking, “Maybe this is it. Maybe I’ve found my person.” But what if, behind those charming smiles and sweet words, something darker is lurking?

Starting to Date? Look Out for These Narcissistic Traits!
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When you’re just getting to know someone, it’s essential to stay alert to certain red flags that might hint at narcissistic tendencies. I know it’s hard, especially when you want so badly for this to be the real thing. But protecting your heart is worth it.

This Isn’t About Being Paranoid

It’s about looking out for your well-being. It’s about making sure that you don’t wake up one day, feeling trapped and wondering how you got there. So, let’s break down the signs to watch for in the early days of dating, with some real-life examples to help you recognize these patterns more clearly.

Key Red Flags — and How They Might Show Up

This list of 11 key red flags will help you:

1. Constantly Steering Conversations Back to

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Fahim chughtai
Fahim chughtai

Written by Fahim chughtai

I survived narcissistic abuse and transformed my pain into power. Now I help others escape toxic relationships and build the life they deserve.

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